Any man is liable to err, only a fool persists in error.
That moment when everything makes sense and comes into focus…this was it for me today.
I am patient with stupidity, but not with those who are proud of it.
Edith Sitwell, thank you. Thank you for putting to words my thoughts and feelings, exactly.
There are two kinds of people in this world.
Surprisingly (not really) there are lots of sayings out there on the internet that start with this phrase. I have done some research and I can’t find anything that resembles what I am about to say, so I apologize to whomever if I am stealing your words. I have no intention of stealing your words, so if you said it you can claim it here and I’ll give you attribution.
There are two kinds of people in this world,
those who give life and those who suck life right out of you.
I have known this for a long time. However, there are stages in my life that I realize as I look back on them that I have either been one of them, or both. I hope that I haven’t been the latter as often as I have been the former, but I guess that really isn’t up to me to judge. I also know, as I look back, that I have most certainly had both kinds of people in my life. I haven’t always recognized it as quickly as I should have. Lessons learned.
I have two pieces of advice. First, evaluate the people in your life. Do it honestly (this will be tough!), and do it quickly. The sooner you realize who the givers and the suckers are, the better off you’ll be. Second, get rid of the suckers. They aren’t worth it. That’s not to say give them a second chance and to have grace with them, but after a while the sucking overrides the giving and that is when it is time to cut them loose.
Where do you fall? Be honest with yourself. Are you a giver of life or a sucker of life?
Feel free to comment on the subject of this post or to add your own “two kinds” statement.
I have been thinking about resolutions a lot since the new year, 2014, has begun. I haven’t ever really been one to do a resolution and my mantra has typically been, “My resolution this year is to have no resolutions.” Someone may have said that before me, don’t know and don’t care. But, the beginning of the year has brought the thoughts of resolutions again to the forefront on my mind. I think I am going to try one this year! It is going to be tough and maybe you can help me with it.
I hereby do resolve to have MORE courage in the face of criticism.
Why? Why do I feel the need to make a resolution this year when I have been so against them in the past? Quite simply, I don’t want to “go with the grain” this year. I am not going to follow the crowd. It is time to stand up and be counted.
These guys, and their thoughts, have motivated me to this decision:
Who is with me? Anyone else need to do this as well? Leave your comments and thoughts below.