I can’t escape this day, so I might as well embrace it for what it is. What it is, is time to give myself some love, something I have neglected to do
for a long time ever.
I have written about Valentine’s Day in the past. I don’t have a love affair with the idea of the day and
maybe probably actually despise it a lot little. But something I have never done is actually given myself some affirming words on a day that is should be dedicated to me love. So, let’s give this a try and see how it works out…
My Love Letter To Me
You ARE enough. You don’t have anything to prove to anyone. You don’t have to be everything to everyone, and you shouldn’t try to be. YOU are enough the way you are.
You ARE unique. There is no one like you and you already stand out for the right reasons. YOUR uniqueness shines through in all that you do.
Abort, abort, abort…
OK, that is as far as I got. It totally feels foreign. Awkward! Why is it so weird to talk about myself in this way?
The truth is that I am not good at this. I guess I have never been very good at accepting compliments, let alone taking them from myself. Maybe I never will be.
I am hard on myself. Always have been. My humor is self-deprecating, but that’s probably a reflection of the fact that I don’t see much that is valuable. I know I am valuable, but affirming it of myself, from myself, is not something I’ve been good at. Is anyone good at it, really?
I suppose most of us probably avoid this sort of thing because we see others who may be good at it but we feel like they are being conceited or full of themselves. “Well, lookie here. Who got up on his/her high horse today?” We don’t want to come across as someone who is full of themselves so we do the exact opposite and then it turns into a habit, where we beat ourselves up and tear ourselves down.
Oh, for the love of
So, has anyone written a love letter to themselves before? How do you do it? Got any hints, tips, pointers?
How did you feel while you were writing it?
How did you feel after you had done? Do you go back and reread it once in a while?
The great mystery here, at least for me, is how to love myself AND actually feel it without feeling like it is phony self-talk. Is that possible?